this harvest session is the documentation of a day in with the wharem family: chris, lexi, lucy and iris. the letter above was written by lexi’s mother to her own mother on christmas 1981, when lexi was two years old. it was written as a ‘thank you for life’ gift all those 34 years ago. it resurfaced again when lexi’s grandfather found it in his wife’s wallet when she died, obviously always kept very close to her heart. an excerpt from nancy’s letter…
“So when your time on earth has ended know this: life greater than your spirit alone shall live on, and the world will be still a better place because you have lived. My children are my gift to you for they will carry on the love obtained and shared by your mother and hers before, and so you have given me great purpose in this life.”
the full letter is one of the most heartfelt pieces of love i have ever read. when lexi sent me the letter and images she told me this, “it embodies how i feel about my own mother, such a full circle feeling when i read it to know that she has in turn passed down that same love to me, and now it will be a gift given to my own girls.”
and she has. that love lives on in every smile she shares with her babes, every twirl in the kitchen in the afternoon sun, every stroke of paint on the kitchen table, the guiding of sewing first stitches for little fingers and kisses in the hallway from her husband with their girls watching on; every moment of joy, struggle, hope and pressing on in the beautiful mundane.
i visited them last month for a full day at their home in lake wales, florida… the town where lexi grew up running beneath the live oak trees with her grandmother, swimming in the lakes beneath the beating sun every summer and where i watched a legacy of intentional gratitude carry on.
“Your light shines on and on and knowing you have allowed yourself to be a vessel of God’s love has given immense reverence to me, to have been born of your womb. My gift to God, and consequently to you, mother, is to keep that light shining and flowing in the truth and honor of your love.” – Nancy
top two images of nancy & her letter courtesy of alexis wharem.